Mayra Gonzalez Accused of Sexing Up 16 y.o. Boyfriend of Daughter, Having His Baby

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A 32-year-old Santa Ana woman gave birth to a healthy baby boy six weeks ago, which normally would not be news in this cruel, cruel world except that the father is apparently the 16-year-old boyfriend of the mother's daughter.

This morning, mother of three Mayra Gonzalez is scheduled to be arraigned on six felony counts of unlawful sexual intercourse with a minor under 16 years old and two felony counts of oral copulation with a minor under 18 years old.

Conviction could land Gonzalez in state prison for seven years and eight months and require her to register for life as a sex offender, although getting at least one fewer Mother's Day card Sunday would be pretty harsh punishment in itself. At last word she was being held on $20,000 bail before her scheduled 10 a.m. arraignment in Santa Ana.

According to a statement from the Orange County District Attorney's office, Gonzalez is accused of boning the 16-year-old lad on six occasions and blowing him twice between July 1-Dec. 24, 2011. He has not been identified by the OCDA because he is considered a sexual assault victim.

However, KCBS/Channel 2 News reports that he was the boyfriend of Gonzalez's daughter, quoting Santa Ana Police Cpl. Anthony Bertagna, the department spokesman, of saying of the relationship, "Apparently, it was continuously happening until people in the neighborhood saw it was going on. They confronted the victim in this case, and he confessed to the fact that it was happening."

Gonzalez told police she loved the boy but knew their trysts were wrong, Bertagna added.

If Gonzalez gets the lifetime sex offender tag, she would be barred from city parks and county recreational areas in jurisdictions that have banned pervs in parks.

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snukie2009
snukie2009

I gotta say I remember being 16 it was like ..what..7 years ago and I was pounding away....I had maybe 3 girls at the time I was leasing around with....2 knew about the other and only one knew of the other that knew that there was another...I'm just gonna say I see no crime the boy wanted to....I know at that age I would hit that.....but if it was the other way I might have mixed feeling cause I would have to talk to the girl to see if she is smart....or mental mature....cause some girls are tucking idiots ..(.just saying some not all).....and can be manipulate ....then I would have a problem ........u just gotta be a realist....its how it is guys are dogs as son as where born.....and some girls are idiots...simple as that......and some guys are creepy...and sick and I would shoot them in a heartbeat if they go near my niece just saying

YeahAboutRight
YeahAboutRight

I have a feeling the most adamant, angry denunciators here probably have the most experience in this sort of thing, or the the most fantasies about something similar.

Eldonperrito
Eldonperrito

I see no problem here.I was bonning older ladies when i was 16,let me tell you those oldies are goodies,and always keep me coming for more.

Kkonzombi
Kkonzombi

You men with your "what's the big deal?" crap are gonna be the first to condemn the next story about a man doing it with a girl don't front

Prawda
Prawda

That's a turn around, usually it's a 32 year old hispanic male and a 16 year old girl. 

Buttercup
Buttercup

I don't care if he was the babysitter, the lawn boy, a neighbor's son, her daughters boyfriend, or her brother's second cousins nephew...having sex with a minor, male or female is a crime.

Send her sick, twisted, ugly ass TO JAIL...just like you would a man in the same situation.

Take the kid and give it to his family and call it a day.

6 Felony counts should net her 15 years, out in 5 and the rest a PREDATOR FOR LIFE name tag...sounds like a perfect conviction.

Francisco Franco
Francisco Franco

Give the lady some slack, she was on heat!! The guy didn't even resisted until his family complained to the authorities. It is a common tradition in the latin culture.

Beto
Beto

I bet the kid was bragging to his homies about how he was fucking his ladies mom. Shit I know I would.

Dave
Dave

Now, if he can only talk his girlfriend into a 3some with the mom.......

Jackie Carron Cota
Jackie Carron Cota

wow... I so miss the non-political correctness of my hometown newspaper... (boning & blowing?) hilarious... love that where I grew up they call it as they see it and don't water it down with fluffy words.... you could teach the Bay Area a lesson on how to report the facts and not make up the news according to liberal bias...

LAC
LAC

Why is it when a woman sexually assaults a boy, it is not called rape and she is not considered to be a predator, but when a man does the same to a girl, it is rape and he is a predator??

Matthew T. Coker
Matthew T. Coker

Apologies to all for my crappy writing. It's not a good excuse, but I was trying to confirm something with police late into last night, and the combination of darkness, fatigue and sweet-tea vodka no doubt jumbled my brain. When you spot such errors, email me at mcoker@ocweekly.com, which is I check more frequently than these comments.

Yarlz Fleshkreep
Yarlz Fleshkreep

Sick story. I'm more disgusted with how unprofessionally written this article is.

Lucie O.
Lucie O.

continuing the editing error: "the mother of three's daughter"...uhh what?

could it be-a) the mother of three daughtersb) the mother of three is daughterc) the mother that has three daughterd) it is correct the way it originally was posted

JBeam
JBeam

I am not a betting man, but I am willing to put most of my money on the possibility that either you or someone close that you care about to you has broken one of the sex crime laws in this state, and, with that, deserves years in prison and the 'predator for life' tag. Read the Penal Code, look in the mirror, ask some questions, and most of all, get a grip. Remember, just because one has not been caught does not make it not criminal.

"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her." You must be a special person...

mitch young
mitch young

"having sex with a minor, male or female is a crime."

In the majority of states, a 16 year old can consent. California is puritanical in that regard.

Streets
Streets

Thanks for the non-sence ADOLF!

gustavoarellano
gustavoarellano

Yeah, like you're an authority on ANYTHING other than stupidity...

Cpl Garcia1
Cpl Garcia1

When it comes to news articles, things have to be "played down" in order to get a point across to every reader. Professionalism and education go hand in hand in such a diverse and heavy subject. You can explain every detail about a story while expleting the vulgarity. It's called an expanded vocabulary. No sugar coating it, just being well educated helps a whole lot. Try it sometime.

Matthew T. Coker
Matthew T. Coker

Keep in mind she's being photographed at the worst time in her life, not for her prom. And the lighting in the booking area, oy, don't get me started ...

909Jeff
909Jeff

I think a lot has to do with who was and who was not a willing participant... A 15 year old boy will stick his you know what in almost anything... a 15 year old girl is typically a non willing participant... or even if she is willing it was as the result of some sort of predatory manipulation to get her to consent..  Thats only my opinion... Either way an adult having sex with a minor is wrong and they should be treated equally under the law. 

Beto
Beto

 I don't know if you're being funny or serious, but either way, I lol'd.

gustavoarellano
gustavoarellano

Wow, you're a pervert as well! Probably belong to NAMBLA if you're uttering such shit...

Ryan
Ryan

Beam,   You are right on the money with this. The whole under-age sexuality topic thing is a very chic thing to be prosecuting in an election year. When I was 16, a 30 year old very hot married neighbor began flirting with me at the community pool. PLEASE don't misconstrue what I'm trying to say as vanity or self-promotion.

   One day she surprised me and leaned over while my eyes were closed and kissed me; then immmediately went into a "French kiss." I was just 16 and just as fast I had an erection. She cupped her hand over the end to hide it saying, "Holy sh-t, you're huge." We went to her house where I was all giddy about the potential hand-j---. It evolved into taking a shower with her, her shaving everything down there and then toweling me off before she literally dragged me to her bed with the towel around my neck.

   I had not done anything more than kiss a girl before then. She spent 3 1/2 hours that day and then about 2 hours a day 2-3 times a week teaching me how to be a good lover of women. I'll admit learning to give her oral was an intimidating experience for a couple months, but I digresss. We had sexual intercourse 3 times on my 17th birthday and twice on her 31st! I was always concerned about her husband who was a muscle head. She said that I always had to remember that our connection was NOT a relationship and she was having her needs met while teaching me something because her husband of six years was endowed with barely 6". 

   We went on for almost 6 months until one day when I expected her to call or signal me with her potted plant on the front window sill; but she didn't. She basically ignored me and looked past me if she saw me.It turned out that her neighbor suspected something and ratted her out to her husband. I was equally culpable and a piece of sh-t without a conscience. I learned a lot about sex and how lame guys are at 16, but no one lost anything.

       I look back on that and if anyone was to ask my wife about my bedroom skills she will tell you our sex live has been great since the first time which was also HER FIRST TIME. No harm done to anyone. No need to drag anyone through the justice system and ruin their name and reputation! It was a fun, educational experience that both of us received and gave pleasure. This whole prosecution BS has only come on the scene in the past few years and it is a waste of time. The DA relies upon the older party to take a plea and avoid the media. WHAT A WASTE OF COURT TIME. NO WONDER PEOPLE DO EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO AVOID JURY DUTY!

Thanks for tolerating my blather,Ryan S. in Mission Viejo

Buttercup
Buttercup

 "Puritanical" MY ASS...a 16 year old boy or girl is not mentally prepared for a "relationship" with a manipulative pedophile adult.

I sure hope you aren't a teacher or person who has close contact with kids.

Jackie Carron Cota
Jackie Carron Cota

Thank you Matthew.. I love to read your columns... I'm so sick of liberal bias... your honesty and forthrightness is refreshing.... wow... a marriage proposal... NICE!

Guest
Guest

"a 15 year old girl is typically a non willing participant" - clearly you know nothing about 15-year old girls these days. Just sayin.

mitch young
mitch young

Wow, brought back memories. Used to fall in love on the bikepath regularly.

Looks like some nice swell wrapping around Campus Point when they were filming, too.

mitch young
mitch young

Man-Boy love ¡No!

Woman-teen boy love ¡Sí!

909Jeff
909Jeff

C'mon cut Mitchie some slack on this one.... What 15-16 year old boy doesn't sit around staring at ass wishing he could get a piece?  And who among us as men thinking back to when we were 15-16 would have turned down a shot at some tail if it came our way? 

I'm just sayin... 

Matthew T. Coker
Matthew T. Coker

In Orange County, at 16 you are a child, especially if you are deemed a crime victim. Now, if you are accused of a crime at 16, you are an adult in Orange County. Hell, I think they've got it down to 9-year-old suspects being considered adults here. Hope this helps clarify.

mitch young
mitch young

I rubbed one out to this...hope you don't mind.

JBeam
JBeam

A 16 year old teenager is NOT a child (other than legally speaking in the state of California). AOC is much lower in many states, and yet lower in many very civilized countries in this world. It is a crime only because someone decided it to be criminal and it makes people like you happy to feel morally superior. Period. At some point we become responsible for the consequences of our actions. That is an arbitrary threshold.

Riddle me this, then. How is it possible to routinely prosecute and sentence children, 14 and up, as adults? To life in prison? If a 'child' under 18 cannot legally consent to do things voluntarily with his / her own body because they cannot understand the consequences of their actions, how can you hold a 14 year old responsible for theirs?

Earlier I suggested you really read the Penal Code and look around your perfect little world to see how many in your immediate circle have done things that are a crime.... period. THEN of course I am sure you will have some explanations...

Buttercup
Buttercup

 This isn't "Letters To Penthouse" dude, it's a crime...period. If I were your mother and found out some piece of trash married woman had done this? She would have been UNDER the jail.

Why is it considered O.K. to do this to a boy?...and I don't want some macho B.S. answer of "Wow, wish it were me!" Stop and think about the damage this does, and would you want a 30 year old MAN doing this to a 16 year GIRL? NO, you wouldn't.

mitch young
mitch young

Dude, I don't think the guy was looking for a 'relationship'. Oh, his tender psyche...LOL

Streets
Streets

The authority on stupidilty! 

909Jeff
909Jeff

HA! Touche'

and correction it "must have" been me... 

 Married now for several years... the drought it over!  

Guest
Guest

 Yes... I used to be one :) My friends also.

Must be you.

909Jeff
909Jeff

Hey I can only recall back *****teen years ago when I was 15-16 and it took a crowbar and explosives to get into a girls britches... 

And yes... I will proudly admit that I know nothing about 15 year old girls. I suppose the question to you is... You have experience?  

James McLoving
James McLoving

 Yes, but there's no way in hell I would then ruin the woman's life by betraying her.

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