Five Things I Would Tell Rihanna if She Were My Friend

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We knew Chris Brown and Rihanna were communicating, because her producer announced on MTV that Brown was going to guest on Rihanna's upcoming single Birthday Cake.

But when Brown tweeted a birthday message to Rihanna (she's 24 today), Rihanna made their now-amicable relationship public when she  tweeted back with a "Thanks!"

And sure, that doesn't exactly constitute a love note, but please remember that Rihanna's dealing with a dude who (according to the police statement), among other things, "punched her in the left eye with his right hand...continued to punch her in the face with his right hand while steering the vehicle with his left hand, [causing her] mouth to fill with blood and blood to splatter all over her clothing and the interior of the vehicle... placed her in a head lock positioning the front of her throat between his bicep and forearm... causing her to be unable to breathe...." 

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Brown pleaded guilty to felony assault and was sentenced to probation, counseling and community service, but I personally think his actions don't merit the kind of forgiveness that everyone has given him.

So I cobbled together a list of what I would tell Ri-ri if I met her in real life (some adapted from the Privateviolence.com site):

  1. I am here to listen and support you, not to judge. As are all your fans, who look up to you. You should be a role model and be strong.
  2. We're glad that you got rid of Chris Brown when you did, because no one should ever be afraid of their partner.
  3. You should always feel safe from coercion, intimidation, violence and abuse in your relationships, and you should ask yourself whether letting Brown in your life again--even in small doses--sends the right signal to the man who beat you bloody.
  4. Violence in relationships is much more common than you think, but it should never be condoned.
  5. The delete/defriend button exists for a reason. There are hundreds of singers as talented as Chris Brown. You don't need him in your life. No, really. You don't.

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5 comments
Rotor Dog
Rotor Dog

I would say, "Dont listen to them, A guy hits you to show that he really loves you.  Now get in the kitchen and make me a damn SAMMICH!!!"

Dinny Q
Dinny Q

Rihanna doesn't have to be a role model for anyone. She has been very strong ever since it happened and has moved on with her life. She did nothing wrong; I don't understand why people keep criticizing her. It's good that she is forgiven him because it shows how she won't let anything keep her down. No matter what happens to her, she's resilient. They're not dating again anyway, and she hasn't been in an abusive relationship since s let her be.

Realitycheck
Realitycheck

BUT SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND AND NOT A ROLE MODEL, simple as that.

Rotor Dog
Rotor Dog

Wow, You really need to get out more.  Theres this thing out there it's called LIFE.  I bet you are glued to the Kardashian show too, Huh? 

FishWithoutBicycle
FishWithoutBicycle

So what? The writer is entitled to express an opinion, as it is your right to disagree.

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